the sunday edition [+ sweet drop biscuits with strawberry butter]

sweet drop biscuits with homemade strawberry butter the sunday edition [+ sweet drop biscuits with strawberry butter]

 

 

Sweet drop biscuits were everywhere when we were in Savannah–I hadn’t had them since I was younger (my Mom made a variation of this recipe when I was growing up), but I came back newly obsessed and had to try my hand at them one lazy Sunday here in Astoria. They were a big hit with my roommates–especially with the addition of homemade strawberry butter (way easier than it sounds, by the way!).

 

You’ll need:

  • 3 cups all-purpose flour
  • 3/4 cup sugar
  • 5 teaspoons baking powder
  • 3/4 teaspoon cream of tartar
  • 1/4 teaspoon salt
  • 3/4 cup shortening
  • 1 1/4 cup milk
  • 2 teaspoons vanilla extract

 

In the bowl of a stand mixer, combine the dry ingredients. Add the shortening, and cut it into the mix (this can be done with your hands) until the whole bowl is crumbly. Mix in the milk and vanilla extract until just combined.

 

Plop small balls of dough (a little less than 1/4 cup worth) onto a baking sheet lined with parchment paper and cook in an oven set to 425 for 15-20 minutes, checking occasionally.

 

For the butter: Combine one stick of unsalted butter (at room temperature) in a bowl with 1/4 cup powdered sugar and strawberries that have been minced or even pulsed in a food processor (about 1/4 cup of these as well, although you can add more if you want a chunkier butter). Whip until combined, then spread onto warm biscuits and enjoy with these links from about the web this week:

 

-Have you guys met the girls of SRSLY. yet? If not, you’re missing out–we worked with them for our Girl vs. Sweat videos for SELF, and their web series is so amazing. Very GIRLS-esque.

 

-Need this genius doormat (don’t we all?).

 

-I’ve put off using anti-aging products as long as I could, but I think with my 25th birthday approaching, it’s time to start. I can’t wait to try out Maya’s suggestions!

 

-I love any dessert with lemon as an ingredient, so Luci’s Nutty Lemon Bars just shot to the top of my “must try” baking list.

 

-Rachelle always has the best working girl outfits. Definitely saving this one for office inspiration once the weather heats up a bit!

 

-I’ve been obsessed with Bailey’s design style for as long as I can remember–I’m super drawn to her amazing us of color and playful take on decor. You have to check out her newest design project.

 

-This recipe for Split Pea Soup with Watermelon Radishes from Liz seems like the perfect way to try and usher in spring.

 

-A “Lip Flip” sketch with Tina Fey and Jimmy Fallon. Enough said.

 

 

 

new orleans style french beignets

new orleans style french beignets new orleans style french beignets

 

Happy Mardi Gras! Well I guess technically Mardi Gras has been going on for a bit already, but today is the day known as “Fat Tuesday,” which sounds like all of my favorite things wrapped up in one. And what better way to celebrate Fat Tuesday than with a traditional New Orleans-style dessert recipe–I swear there is no link between the fact that it’s called Fat Tuesday and the fact that I made donuts…they’re not that bad for you.

 

If you’ve ever been down south, chances are you’ve probably found beignets somewhere on the menu. They’re a French-style pastry that’s become synonymous with the Cajun and Creole food that New Orleans is known for, and they are delicious. I don’t even like donuts (or donut-style desserts) and this beignet recipe had me reaching for more than a few of the pillowy dough puffs.

 

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Truthfully, I didn’t know where to start with making beignets, so I searched for a few recipes until I found this one that looked relatively straight forward. I will say this: they are a bit time consuming. The from-scratch dough took about an hour and a half to rise, during which I worked out with my roommates and earned those beignets, baby. It also makes a massive batch of pastries. I didn’t even use up all the dough, but I’d say it would make you at least 30-40 beignets if you use the whole batch. Not that you’ll have a hard time finding people to take them off your hands…

 

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Frying sounds intimidating, but I assure you it’s much easier than it looks. A few things you should make sure you have on hand: a deep-sided pot (like something you would make sauce in), a slotted spoon to lift the beignets out of the oil, a rack to let them cool a bit on (you’ll want to serve them warm, though) and a newspaper or magazine on hand in case you have to fan your fire alarm to get it to shut off (not that that happened to me or anything).

 

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I served my beignets dusted with powdered sugar and along side a trio of dips: melted semi-sweet chocolate, raspberry preserves (I love Bonne Maman) and my favorite easy-to-make caramel. I cheat when I make it, and combine a melted stick of butter in a sauce pan with a cup of brown sugar, stirring until it’s smooth in melted, about two minutes. Add a half a cup of heavy cream and whisk together for another two minutes, then remove from the heat and add in some vanilla and a good dose of salt. Once it cools it will be perfectly thick and sweet–the ideal partner alongside these doughy, crispy beignets!

 

I promise if you try these out you won’t be disappointed–they’re worth their weight in tacky plastic beaded necklaces.

 

 

 

 

the year of 50 books: 1-5

the year of 50 books the year of 50 books: 1 5

 

I’ve always been a big bookworm, over time amassing a collection of worn-in favorites that I page through again and again. I have pipe dreams of having a library with a sliding ladder and publishing a book one day. Reading has always been part of my life, but truthfully, I haven’t had a ton of time to read in the few years that I’ve been working full-time. This year, I wanted to challenge myself to really commit to reading again–before bed, on the subway, on a lazy Sunday afternoon–and so I’ve resolved to read 50 books this year. I always love hearing people’s opinions on books (it’s how I find some of the best ones!) so I figured I’d share what I read here every five or so books…I will do my best to give very few spoilers!

 

 

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The Fault in our Stars, by John Green A word of warning with this one: pack those tissues. This novel (I guess it’s technically “young adult” but I disagree with that) follows sixteen-year-old cancer patient Hazel through love, pain and fighting for her life. She meets Augustus Waters in support group, and that’s where the real story starts, in my opinion. I love the way Green depicted the love between Gus and Hazel (what can I say, I’m a sucker for romantics)–it was sweet and young while still feeling very honest and real. I think anyone who cracks this book open really kind of knows where it’s heading (I mean, with two main characters suffering from cancer, how could you not?), but I loved that the book wasn’t just a downer about death and mortality. More than that, it really drove home the message of living every moment to your fullest. The movie, starting Shailene Woodly and Ansel Elgort, comes out and June and I cannot wait to see it–but I definitely recommend reading the book first (as always!). Rating: 8.7 out of 10. 

 

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Life After Life by Kate Atkinson I have to admit, when I first started Life After Life, I almost stopped. I wasn’t getting it at all–I thought maybe I was dumb, or maybe just not paying enough attention? Either way, I’m so glad I powered through, because let me tell you–this is a good one. Kate Atkinson’s nonlinear story starts off with a bang–literally–as a girl walks into a bar, holds up a gun and shoots Adolf Hitler (don’t worry, it happens in the first two pages, so this isn’t a spoiler). From there we follow the female protagonist of Ursula Todd as she lives her life…and dies. And lives, and dies. As a baby, as a child on the beach, as a teen…the many lives of Ursula Todd carry you through history as you piece together her story yourself. It’s largely a narrative about how our decisions and choices dictate our fate, but also how chance can change everything. Once I got into it, I couldn’t put it down. Rating: 9 out of 10

 

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The Girl You Left Behind, by JoJo Moyes Jojo Moyes is quickly becoming my favorite author. I first fell in love with her romantic storytelling style in the tearjerker Me Before You (highly recommended!), so when The Girl You Left Behind came out, I was quick to pick it up. The story splits it’s time between present day and occupied France in 1916, focusing on the lives of two women, Sophie and Liv. Moyes’ attention to character development has always been the thing that draws me to her–the people she writes always feel so real, and Sophie and Liv are no exception. While it was a bit hard to keep track of the swapping dates at times, I enjoyed piecing the two women’s stories together to see how the were eventually interwoven. This was one of my favorites of the group, and it definitely makes you think about those pieces of art you browse through at flea markets–you’ll soon see why! Rating: 9.5 out of 10

 

 

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Divergent, by Veronica Roth Boy, do I love a good series. Harry Potter? Yes, please. The Hunger Games? Sign me up (well, I mean not literally). The only exception to this rule? Fifty. Shades. Of. Grey. Just please, no. Anyways, back on track here–I managed to sneak in Divergent to my first set of five books this year. I mostly picked it up because I had heard good things and wanted to watch it before the movie hit theaters this March (another Shaliene movie–girl is on fire). For those of you unfamiliar (I feel like everyone has read this by now!), Divergent takes place in a dystopian city (our present-day Chicago), where the population is segregated according to their personality traits. It centers on Beatrice Price, a sixteen-year-old girl who goes through the sorting ceremony only to find out that she’s a Divergent (meaning she doesn’t fit into any one faction). Tris (her nickname in the book) goes through training for one of the most notorious factions (not telling you which!), catches the eye of one of the head trainers, Four, and works with him to uncover the reasoning behind their factions. Divergent was a quick and entertaining read, and the first book definitely got me hooked on the series. I loved the strong-but-flawed lead character of Tris and I felt like I could relate her emotional struggles throughout the book (and the idea of having to be one thing, when you really want to be many). The one part of the book that dissapointed me? SPOILER ALERT That they made Four’s real name Tobias. I don’t know why it bothers me so much, but the name really freaks me out. I think it’s because it was the name of a serial killer on Criminal Minds? Either way, I stuck with calling him Four throughout the whole book. END SPOILER ALERT Overall, this was an easy and engaging read–I’ll definitely be seeing the movie and finishing off the series if the final two are anything like the first. If you liked The Hunger Games, you’ll like this! Rating: 8.5 out of 10

 

 

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Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil, by John Berendt I really gave finishing Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil before our Savannah trip a good old college try, but it didn’t happen. I started with the best intentions (read it before Savannah, so I could scope out the landmarks in the book while we were there), but I couldn’t make my way through it quickly enough. It was a bit of a tough read for me, because you’re introduced to so many characters in such succession that it’s hard to keep them all straight. The true-crime novel follows a reporter, who splits his time between Savannah and New York, as he stumbles into Savannah high society and the biggest story of his career. What I liked best about the book is what a strong presence the city of Savannah played in it. I didn’t understand it before going there myself, but now I absolutely do–the city completely colors your world, and I have to imagine that your personality is really shaped by living there, as the character’s in the book were. Once I got everyone straight, it was a really fun read–there’s even a Clint Eastwood-directed movie (starring Frank Underwood…uh, I mean Kevin Spacey) for you to entertain yourself with after you read. Rating: 8 out of 10

 

 

 

 

 

 

***I couldn’t find the source of that top photo–if you know it, please tell me!

things that make me zen: the prophet

peaceful mornings things that make me zen: the prophet

 

 

Truthfully, I’ve never been the kind of person who believes in a little thing called “zen.” I haven’t read many spirituality books (although my roommate is turning me onto them slowly but surely), I don’t meditate, I don’t burn incense or focus my breathing–really, the closest I come to getting “zen” is the 2.5 seconds I’m able to quiet my mind in yoga class (if I’m able to quiet my mind in yoga class).

 

But I do like feeling calm–and in a life full of commitments and work and gratifying relationships (that can sometimes be exhausting, as all relationships can), it’s something I really, truly have to work at. Calm isn’t my resting point–reluctantly so, anxiety is. Maintaining or achieving calm is a very concentrated goal–and one I admittedly don’t always reach.

 

In the quest for calm, there are several things that help me–the perfect relaxing playlist, a few laughs over wine with friends, a morning yoga session, a night in bed with tea and a book (or lately, House of Cards)–and one more thing: The ProphetHonestly, I was pretty reluctant to share this here–it’s almost like it’s my little secret safe space that no one else knows about (although I know others have read it)–but in the end I decided I love it just too much to keep it to myself.

 

The Prophet is a book of 26 poetry-style stories, written by Lebanese philosopher Kahlil Gibran. Thinking back, I really can’t remember when I discovered it, but I know I was pretty young (maybe a sophomore in college?). After my first read, I thought it was just destined to be the book that housed my favorite quote (“Passion, unattended, is a flame that burns to its own destruction” which is still one of my favorites), but as I grew older and continued to re-read it, I found meaning in it that wasn’t initially perceptible to younger me. The book touches on everything from love and marriage, to joy and sorrow and even my favorite–eating. It’s rare that I connect with a book as much as I have with The Prophet. Something about it is just able to ease my mind and worries, and I often find myself flipping through the chapters to look up passages that I know will relax me in the moment. Here’s a bit of one of my favorite passages (it feels weird and holy to call them that, but I’m not really sure how else to refer to them!) on friendship:

 

“For without words, in friendship, all thoughts, all desires, all expectations are born and shared, with joy that is unacclaimed.

When you part from your friend, you grieve not; for that which you love most in him may be clearer in his absence, as the mountain to the climber is clearer from the plain
and let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit
And in the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures.
For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.”
I don’t know–maybe it’s the writer in me, or maybe I’m way more of a poetry sap then I thought I was, but I think it’s kind of beautiful. Either way, the book (Which is very short. Like 125 pages I think?) is absolutely worth your time. #endzenrant

 

 

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a tourist’s uniform

casual vacation outfit a tourists uniform

Chambray, Madewell | Skirt, Madewell (old, but cute similar here and here) | Boots, Nordstroms | Tee Shirt, GAP | Bag, Vintage (Similar here) | Watch, Kate Spade

 

When it comes to my tourist “uniform” I subscribe to three major schools of thought: it needs to be comfortable (that means no tight pants, itchy fabrics or blister-inducing shoes), it has to have layers (especially if I’m outside a lot, like we were in Savannah) and it should be casual (because walking around the city in some fancy dress would garner a few stares).

 

This look, which I threw on for our main “tourist-y” day in Savannah, hit the trifecta. My old faithful chambray kept me warm during the cooler morning hours, and my boots (which I seriously recommend) were comfortable to walk the whole city in all day–quite the feet (HA. See what I did there?).

 

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Can we also talk about how I’m pretty sure the whole city of Savannah was specially designed for outfit photos (I mean I’m joking, but only kind of…)? There are so many pretty quiet streets, intricate house facades and ivy-covered walls. Plus, no one gives you nasty stares like they do here in New York City. Definitely an upgrade.

 

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mussels in a bread bowl

mussels in a bread bowl mussels in a bread bowl

 

 

Do you ever find that, no matter how many times you go out to eat or how many new restaurants you try, you always end up ordering the same thing? For me, that “same thing” is always mac and cheese as a main dish–I like to say it’s because I’m on a quest for the best one in New York City, but really, I think I’m just an addict.  Another dish I’m going steady with? Mussels in a bread bowl.

 

 

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In. A. Bread. Bowl. Just wanted to make sure you heard that correctly, because how could anything served in a bowl made out of crusty, warm bread not be delicious? Now add fresh mussels and a chunky sweet tomato broth and you’ve got the makings of your new impress-the-guests dinner appetizer.

 

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You’ll need:

  • 1/2 dozen mussels, cleaned and “debearded” (see how to do this here)
  • 1 spanish onion, chopped fine
  • 1 can crushed tomatoes (I like San Marzano tomatoes–they’re the best!)
  • 4 cloves garlic, chopped fine
  • Olive oil
  • Salt & pepper
  • Fresh parsley
  • Dried oregano

 

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In a sauce pan set over medium heat, cook the onions and garlic in a thin layer of olive oil until translucent and fragrant. Add the contents of one can of crushed tomatoes to the pot, then refill the can halfway with water and add that as well. Stir to combine, then cook on medium heat covered, until the sauce is bubbling.

 

Carefully, add the fresh mussels to the pot along with salt, pepper, a few dashes of oregano and 1/4 cup fresh chopped parsley. Stir so the mussels are completely integrated into the sauce, then cover and cook on medium low for 20 minutes (stirring occasionally), or until the shells have popped open. As a rule of thumb, any shells that don’t open, you’ll want to discard–this means the mussel was dead before cooking and could get you sick.

 

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Cut into a loaf of bread with a serrated knife at an angle so that you can remove part of the “top” of the bread. You might need to go back and scoop out some additional bread to create more of a “bowl” to put your mussels in, but just be sure to leave enough of a cushion on the bottom and sides so that your sauce doesn’t leak through/out.

 

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Ladle the cooked mussels and some extra sauce into the bread bowl and serve immediately. You’ll need an additional bowl for the shells, and your hands at the ready for the best part–scooping out all that sauce-soaked bread once you get to it! Enjoy!

 

 

 

 

four days in savannah

savannah marquee sign four days in savannah

 

I’ve been staring at my computer screen for twenty minutes just trying to figure out a way to describe Savannah properly in this post. The only thing that’s coming to me? Obsession. I have never been so obsessed, so quickly, with anything in my life (OK, except for The OC) as I was (and am) with Savannah. It took maybe 2.5 seconds for us to fall in love with the city last week and the four days we spent there were pretty near perfect.

 

First, let’s discuss the weather. I knew anything that wasn’t single digits would feel warm, but the Southern Gods were really really amazing to us (Which is actually incredible, given how much I trash talk country music. You’d think I would have earned myself four days worth of rain just for that…). Every day was 70 or higher and gorgeously sunny–I had almost forgotten what it felt like to wear light clothes, but this definitely reminded me!

 

We spent our days taking in the city and its amazing squares (Savannah is set up like a grid and there are dozens and dozens of charming “squares” sprinkled throughout) and our nights having some of the best food ever. There’s really no logical way to arrange this post because I have so many photos I want to share with you guys–apologies in advance for the image dump. But definitely scroll through, because I’ll be calling out bits & tips, as well as our favorite restaurants and details on the hotel we stayed at!

 

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^^ The homes of Savannah were so charming, I could have starred at them all day. This last one you see here is the house from Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil if any of you have ever read that book/seen the movie. I tried to take a non-stalkerish picture which involved me crouching behind a bush…like a stalker…^^

 

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^^ Surely this will be the invitation to our 50th friendship anniversary party, no? ^^

 

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^^ Savannah is chocked full of history, and we wanted to hear about it all, so our first day we took a guided trolly ride around the city. It was a great way to get the lay of the land and hear some cool facts while we were at it–we made mental notes of places we wanted to come back to see, like this amazing old cotton exchange building. I definitely recommend it (I can’t remember the name of the company we took, but there are so many you can’t really go wrong.) ^^

 

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^^And the food–oh my god, the food. I had never really had much Southern food before, and I’m not sure if what I ordered each night was totally legitimate, but it was all amazing. Our favorite place had to be The Olde Pink House, an incredible restaurant in Savannah’s historic downtown. Yes, it is pink, and yes it is most definitely haunted–according to legend (and hundreds of accounts), a slighted wife who hung herself in the basement still haunts the home–and trust me when I tell you, I could totally see how this is true. The place is eerie in the coolest way (think a mix of The Haunted Mansion and Sleep No More) and is definitely beautiful enough and delicious enough that I’m considering haunting it too.^^

 

Other places we loved: Leopold’s for old-school ice cream, Garibaldi’s for italian, Papillote (which was responsible for that picnic you see up there), Elizabeth on 37th, Vic’s on the River (best fried oysters I’ve ever had) and J. Christopher’s (a local favorite for brunch).

 

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^^ Predictably, we spent as much time outside as we could. Savannah is full of charming squares to sit in the shade (which I’m sure is a godsend when the hot summer hits) and almost every tree is draped with Spanish moss (it is now my dream to have my own Spanish moss-covered tree). The flowers were just starting to bloom in the city and the wind off the water was cool and refreshing–it felt amazing to our cooped-up New York selves. My favorite place had to be Forsyth park, home of that gorgeous white fountain you see above. It was huge and sunny and full of people walking their puppies. I mean, what else could you really ask for? ^^

 

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^^ Thank goodness my camera has a self timer because getting a picture of the three of us was not easy. I have this phobia that I’m going to ask someone to take our picture and they’re going to drop my camera, so I settle on propping it up perilously on whatever I can find and hoping for the best. So much safer (not). ^^

 

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^^ Our hotel was right across from City Market, one of the main streets in Savannah full of tourist shops, bars, restaurants and our favorite, Wet Willies. Alcoholic slushies were a daily occurrence (and you could mix flavors you guys–it was pretty awesome).  ^^

 

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^^ Our hotel, The Andaz Savannah, was kind of amazing. We scored an awesome deal, which was good enough for us, but the service and amenities of the place really blew us away. The location, in the center of Savannah’s Historic District, was perfect for exploring the city by foot (you really don’t need to rent a car) and they won us over immediately at check in with free glasses of wine (the way to my heart, naturally). Breakfast there was great (best lattes ever!), as was the room service dessert selection (which we indulged in one night). There were fluffy robes, amazing craft cocktails (we bellied up to the bar one afternoon for mint juleps) and incredible decor. Seriously, I want my kitchen to look like that someday! ^^

 

 

Well, that about sums it up (in 50 pictures or so…). If you have any questions or are planning your own trip, let me know–I’d love to talk your ear off about my new favorite place!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

the sunday edition

coffee and baubles the sunday edition

 

 

Happy Sunday! I don’t know about you, but I’m in need of a serious sugar-detox after this weekend. Dessert every night, plus treats like macarons and milkshakes–let’s just say I’m going to be pounding veggie juice for a while.

 

We’re catching a plane today, so I thought I’d leave you with a few favorite links from around the web this week (sans-recipe…I’m sorry!!). I’m looking forward to a few days of 70 degree weather (which will surely feel like 90), starting The Goldfinch and taking photos around Savannah. I will catch you all on Thursday!

 

 

-I loved Kara’s post this week about being intentional with your time–something I definitely need to improve on!

 

-My co-worker and hilarious friend Zahra has an amazingly sassy blog, and her most recent post about the five friends you need in your life is spot on.

 

-This Brooklyn home that was renovated post-Sandy is absolutely stunning. I can’t get enough of that exposed brick wall.

 

-If you’ve ever wondered which hairbrush you should use when, this Beauty Department post is for you.

 

-My co-worker and hilarious friend Zahra has an amazingly sassy blog, and her most recent post about the five friends you need in your life is spot on.

 

-My roommate sent me this awesome article about how all the problems we perceive ourselves having really stem from the way we think. File this under things that make you go “hm.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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happy valentine’s day!!!

happy valentines day happy valentines day!!!

 

Or, as I would like to refer to today, Happy House of Cards day! Whether your plans today include a romantic dinner (I had to tell this handsome guy I already had plans. Bummer.) or just a night out with the girls, I hope you all have an awesome time celebrating the ones you love. For me, the night calls for a birthday celebration for my friend Caitlin (I kind of wish I made these cookies in honor of it) at The Smith, followed by drinks and a bit of packing for our trip to Savannah next week. Enjoy celebrating today!

 

p.s. A little Valentine’s Day playlist for you!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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your valentine’s day look, simplified

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If you could narrow in on the days in a women’s life where she wants to look especially pretty, Valentine’s Day is probably one of them. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, there’s just something about the holiday (at least, I think) that makes you go extra-feminine, extra-girlie and extra-pretty for a few days.

I’m definitely not one of those people who thinks you should dress or look a certain way for a guy (like wearing your hair only the way he likes it, etc.), but I do feel like it’s very easy to go over-the-top on Valentine’s Day (or any other date night really). Red lips, red nails, fake lashes, lots of bronzer! Next thing you know, your guy thinks he’s cheating on you because he’s at a romantic dinner across from someone he barely even recognizes. This Valentine’s Day, keep it soft, pretty–and most importantly, you. Here’s how:

 

valentines day makeup inspiration your valentines day look, simplified

What’s that saying? Keep it simple, stupid? Well yeah, do that. Let’s face it, your guy isn’t going to notice if you spent four hours highlighting and contouring in the mirror (unless you’re late for your dinner reservation), so skip the hoopla for the evening and save it for a night out with the girls. Your date wants to take you out, not you and your entire Sephora collection, so any makeup you use should stubtly play up your best features. I love starting with a highlighting primer, like Make’s version, for a little bit of a glow. Bring some dimension to your face (and call attention to your gorgeous eyes) with a little brow action and some mascara (Eyeko’s version is seriously amazing…I always get compliments on my lashes when I wear it!). I’d even make a case for a bit of a cat-eye with a felt-tip liner…just nothing too crazy (think more Emma Stone, less Alexa Chung). Finish things off with a bright cheek and pretty lip (Laura Mercier makes the best lipsticks–so hydrating!).

 

 

valentines day hair inspiration your valentines day look, simplified

Now, let’s talk hair! You know that very audible hairspray “crunch”? Yeah…we don’t want that. Besides making sure you don’t have a heavy hand with the spray nozzle, focus on whipping up a ‘do that makes you feel pretty without the high-maintenance every half hour mirror check. I love going for loose waves–they’re pretty and romantic while staying out of that “too dolled up” category. I love starting with Fekkai’s Coiff heat protectant before I blow dry (plus it smells amazing), then I focus on creating loose, pretty waves with my Jose Eber wand (you’ll want to wrap hair with a lot of space in between the spirals on the barrel–that will ensure more of a wave, less of a ringlet). After finger combing my hair to give it an intentionally messy look, I finish with a combo of Living Proof hairspray and Bumble and Bumble’s thickening spray at the roots. Oh! And don’t forget perfume–that always makes me feel prettier and pulled together. Lately, I’m loving Issey Miyake’s “Florale” scent.

 

 

valentines day fashion inspiration your valentines day look, simplified

 

Finally, the best part–the clothes! I love the idea of a pretty, girlie dress for a special Valentine’s Day date (with your guy, or your girlfriends!). Liz’s Red Valentino frock is amazing (I mean, pretty much my dream dress), and hits the perfect note between just-fancy-enough while still young and fun. You could go with a pale pink like this Tory Burch to stay holiday-themed, or opt for a sexy black cut out number.  I love the pretty blue lace on this Alice and Olivia dress, the pattern on this Peter Pilotto for Target one, and the Olivia Pope-ness of this black and white one (doesn’t it remind you of the dress from this scene?).

 

 

 

 

 

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